An Aries man is decisive, emotional, loving, caring, and highly nurturing. He is a fantastic partner to have and a beautiful friend to keep. An Aries man is a keeper. But, Aries is also very independent; he will never ask for help. Now, of course, this has repercussions — you being ignored sometimes. For an Aries man, prospects are always going to be necessary.
Aries is a struggling soul. He must be upset or angry with you. And so, to avoid any further arguments he will try to ignore you and keep all his emotions to him. He may be going through bad times and this will probably affect him. He must be in a need of support. But as Aries man is an independent person, he will take his time to solve his problem and this will have an unintended consequence of making you feel ignored. As mentioned earlier, the Aries male is decisive. He will always know what he has to do with his life.
The Aries man will do all that it takes to fulfill his dreams. While running behind the dreams it may happen that he will ignore you in the process. Aries man likes to have his freedom of fun and want to keep doing new things in life. If you will try to restrict him, it will lead him to ignore you and try to have nothing to do with you. Aries men love to have attention, especially from the women they have invested their time. If you ignore them for stupid reasons, he will ignore you more times than you ignored him.
If you can see that the Aries man in your life is getting cold and distancing himself, these changes in his behavior may well indicate that there may be a change in your relationship as well.
Just go back in the time and try to figure out if you have done anything wrong. If you find any such thing, say sorry to him. Photo: Getty Images. Erin Watson. Nobody likes being ignored by an Aries, especially when they have no idea why.
Subscribe to our newsletter. Join now for YourTango's trending articles , top expert advice and personal horoscopes delivered straight to your inbox each morning. I really liked him and wanted to work things out! Crush on Aries Man Long distance at first. Now I am 15 minutes from him I guess his fantasy is more important It could have been good. At least for awhile I am independant I am the type to get up in the middle of night after sex and say hey I'll see you later okay He never gave me a chance.
The fire swept through way to fast and deystroyed everything. I never had a chance Need to move on thats all! Scorpio confused by aries change by: Scorpio Gal So much of what I've read is similar to my experience I'm a strong, independent scorpio girl who was swept off my feet by an aries man. Although we never had sex, the passion was unbelievable and it was only cos we never actually got to meet up again I'd known him since school.
He always claimed to be shy, but even I was shocked with some of the stuff he used to come out with then as time passed this used to depend on his mood - it was often like he had crawled back in his shell. I confronted him about it and he just said he was shy and would try do better.
I wasn't clingy, but I'm the type who needs to know if I'm been messed around. My circumstances were complicated I was still married in a failed relationship and he even moved so we could have somewhere to go and be together, but everything just conspired against us and we never got to meet up. He used to communicate and tell me everything and in the end it was always me enquirying after him even though I'd had major surgery.
Everything he said he was going to do he did, but he didn't communicate and let his work get in the way. He'd suffered stress related breakdowns in the past so I was always careful not to push or hassle him, but after a lifetime of caring for others, sorting out their problems and my own health problems the last thing I wanted was another relationship with someone who couldn't be there for me.
Then after we were finally due to spend some time time together 8 months on , he had to go away and cover for his boss yes, it's all true. I told him how frustrating it was how everything just kept conspiring against us and after a particular crap time I could've really done with a hug, but he was never around and well, I've not heard from him since. I've only communicated to enquire after his wellbeing or to say I was gonna be in the area if he fancied meeting up, but nothing - completely blank.
I know he was everything that I don't want in a man, but the chemsitry etc was unbelievable and if nothing else I miss him as a friend. He's had manners when his ex's who have treat him badly, have contacted him in the past, but he's not seeing anyone else and hasn't done for around 10 years. I've never experienced anything like it.
My self respect tells me he wasn't good enough for me, but I miss him so much and don't know whether it's my fault or his. Advice from an Aries Man by: Anonymous I'm an Aries man, I have been in many relationships which ended up being unsuccessful - mainly due to circumstances or was just being mislead. You could say I fell in love at first sight - I supposed it felt good being valued and loved by someone.
It can kind of felt good getting attention from someone you love. As for why your Aries man is ignoring you could be a defense mechanism that we might get hurt. Even we seem tough on the outside, we are warm hearted people.
We could say we have a tough invinceble sheild. One best way to win an Aries heart is subtle attention - don't over do it because that's when get suspicious.
Few things which can frustrate an Aries man is by blatenly ignoring them or disrespecting them anyway because that's when they make fast exit. We can be straight forward sometimes and honest. Try to be open and firm with your Aries man and tell him that you like him or even give compliments because that will certainly get his attention. Try something which will get him out of his boring routine - boredom is definately a pet hate for us Aries - so do something fun and interesting.
As you probably know Aries are very passionate people and sex is something which will definately be welcomed. Call me typical man but Aries like to be active not just in sex and relationships but also in sports or even intellectually Aries hate things that are dull and repetitive. We are very loyal people as long as excitement provided and that enough attention is given so he feels wanted but not to the point of possessiveness, as Aries do gaurd their independence.
Sorry for sounding macho again but if all fails - try sex Aries are passionate and caring individuals, but that depends whether you know him well enough etc Things to remember is give your full attention but don't over do it and do not ignore him worst thing ever!
Try this and am sure your Aries man will open up and will be more responsive to your needs. It's been 10 months since I heard from him and it's so hard being ignored by someone you really care about. He's had mental problems in the past and I've always tried to tread carefully. I can't live my life like this, but these last years have taught me life is short and well, I don't give up on the folks in my life. Ideally I would like him to come back to me - if nothing else for my self esteem, but I'm not so proud I won't apologise if I've done something wrong.
He always maintained he was patient, but maybe in the end he couldn't cope with the frustration and work stress I don't know. The sex would never have been a problem had we managed a get together. I've not wanted to hassle him, appear needy or chase after him in case I am been made a fool of. My communications have always been friendly, humorous and enquirying after him. He knows I'm independent, strong and not clingy. I'm 40 now and after years of caring for others and sorting out their problems on top of my own health problems, it's really time I started concentrating on myself.
It's just so incredibly sad - is he frustrated with me, with himself or the situation? He's an overweight smoker who doesn't play any sports not my kind at all , but intellectually etc there was magnetism.
He's still got some of my things and although I've enquired if there was a chance I'd ever get them back - nothing. In the grand scheme of things they're not important except one was the last gift from a friend who was killed by her husband , but it's the principle and he's not like this. He didn't know the settlemental value, but then he could've just ordered replacements online, but no, nothing.
It's not the man I knew, but then I'm doubting everything at the moment. Being a scorpio I'm loathe to give up on people, but it pains me to think he's hurting in someway or is just frustrated and won't talk to me and try and resolve it. He said he was going to sort things so we could spend time together - and even moved so we could.
But everything just conspired against us. Being an alpha male - do you think it's because he feels as if he's let me down in someway? Kind of like maybe his pride is hurt? Sorry, I don't know I'm just clutching at straws I guess. Thanks once again. Advice from Aries Man by: Anonymous It's seems like a psychological dilemma that your Aries partner is experiencing - you mentioned that he is stressed, smokes and is overwieght.
Self-esteem seems to be issue. I know in times of stress, I tend withdraw and want my own space - not just purely in a spirit of selfishness but to stay focused on what needs to be done in career otherwise my whole world can go in a state of collapse. In times of stress, I also tend avoid people who get too much involved in my life, especially if restrictions are imposed.
Although your partner is an Aries man, you might want observe his birth chart as there could be planets in certain signs, houses or planetry aspects even could give clues to what challanges he could be facing - end of the day you have free will in life, especially in love. When you discussed about your partner's life style - there seems to something to do with low self- esteem and stress.
There maybe an element of Pisces in his chart too - escapism can be shown if that is the case. You partner should be lucky to have someone who is caring, supportive and understanding, as I can tell from what you told me.
So I don't thinks it's you, I think it's your partner - he needs to come to terms with reality and realise what's front of him. But avoiding you emotionally could also stem from his insecurity.
Do speak to him and tell how you feel and that you there for him - then he is aware of the feelings you have for him. If you still think he is avoiding you then I can only suggest councelling. That's if you tried everthing to make it work. If he cares - he would be willing to do anything to make you happy. Don't want to sound negative but just give you a reality check - you may want ask yourself if he is worth it that's if he can't put his do's in to the relationship.
Time is precious - you don't spend too much time on someone who cannot reciprocate feelings for you and it's a year later when nothing has happened. Again, I don't want to be negative but hope things can progress in positive light. If you still need some friendly advice then am always there to hear you out : o.
Ignored by Aries man with issues by: Scorpio Gal Hello again and many thanks for taking the time to respond. Not sure about pisces in his chart birthtime unknown , but he's an aquarius moon.
Your mentioning pisces jolted me though as I married one and although he was a really lovely man and surprisingly well grounded from what I've since learnt about pisces , amongst other things he was prone to giving too much of his time to lost causes as opposed to the real things The aries men works lots of hours in a very techy and demanding job I'm a techy myself so understand , and was often wiped out all the time.
Although being unfit and smoking would've compounded this. That and the fact he did a lot of weed for many years. Not recently though. All his other relationships have ended very badly and I guess like you say there is probably an element of being scared of getting involved it all happened very quickly and surprised both of us and having rebuilt his life, it changing again.
I care about him, but I'm quite the opposite; I'm a go-getter. I like to travel, keep myself fit and do things with my life. I can't make him talk to me if he doesn't want to, but it pains me to think he is hurting in someway.
He knows I care about him, but that I'm also offended he's thick skinned and can be inadvertently insensitive. He also knows I'm independent, strong etc, and that although I wasn't looking for a relationship, I will get on with my life with or without him.
I know he's tough, self-reliant and he'll hopefully work through it one way or another, but it's certainly given me a reality check. If anything it's reaffirmed what I already knew - he's got some serious issues. The last thing I need is another relationship with someone with psychological problems.
Maybe he'll get back in touch, maybe not. I wish him well either way. Reading other people's experiences, chatting with you and seeing things from an aries man's perspective has been a great help to me - thank you once again and all the best. If I can return the favour - feel free to offload.
To Scorpio woman by: Anonymous I am a scorpio woman and dated an Aries man for about a year. I set boundaries regarding sex, and after he broke up with me twice, we got back together and mutual agreed to be abstain from sex until marriage or atleast engagement.. This was new for both of us but I was on a spiritual renewal thing and he had been wanting to go to church and stuff or just start living like he knew he should..
I found myself admiring him more and more. I gained a high respect for him watching him pray and in a suit.. I was liking the leadership and where he was leading to But the church we was going to had some issues which lead to both of us not attending anymore. We didnt trust the pastor and the first lady use to "do" one of his boys supposedly. But we both maintained out personal relationships with God, but we didnt worship together.
He was mildly overweight pop belly and smoked. Light skinned and divorced. He had a lot of mental issues with his ex and just period.
He would think and think about stuff til he got headaches. I would try to tell him to stop thinking so much but he coudnt help it. He often told me that I reminded him of his mom.. He always told me how much he loved me and marriage would come up a lot. The scorpio in me would take it with a grain of salt, but I never dismissed his emotional proclaimations.
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